America: Our homeless problem is Issue Number 1 (and can be solved)

For years it seemed in my neck of the urban woods, only one beggar holding a sign for money stood at every major thoroughfare. ‘Clever-like-a-fox’ we drivers passing by would think, noting the beggars always choose the busiest intersections along highways. Lately, they’re accompanied by groomed and well-behaved dogs, usually pit bulls. It’s surprising how clean and calm those dogs are, given their days are spent breathing in auto exhaust fumes from millions of passing cars and hearing loud nerve-racking engines. Dogs I know would bark angrily at all that noise.

But since the pandemic I suppose, we’re seeing A LOT MORE homeless people who’ve taken to sleeping everywhere and anywhere along our busiest city streets. They hang quilts somehow beneath overpasses where they evidently live and certainly sleep. They roll all their stuff in shopping carts or suitcases, again along the busiest thoroughfares. So we’re bound to see them when driving to and from our work-a-day jobs. And now after the pandemic, the homeless population has EXPLODED along our city streets—witness all their stuff strewn for blocks.

My city is no different from other cities and even suburbs and rural towns across the U.S. Homelessness has multiplied and expanded into our country’s most perplexing, yet solvable, problem. And yes, Americans, we are the ones responsible for solving this problem.

King of the road?

Most Americans are a paycheck away from joining the homeless population. When driving past their clusters or solitary adults, we think the same thing: drugs and/or mental illness. And we’re accurate to a point. What kind of person would stand on a street corner begging for money? Their signs never say HELP! as much as NEED MONEY or just $. No amount of a month’s collection would cover rent. So the coins and bills must go for drugs and liquor, solace for addiction and street life.

But during the pandemic of 2019-2021, thousands of jobs were cut, meaning tens of thousands of families had no choice but to leave their housing immediately and figure out where they are going to go and how they are going to live. It would explain why our nation’s public schools have lost tens of thousands of students with no way of finding them. They’re not enrolled in private schools, other public schools across the country or home schooled. Where’d everybody go?

We expect government social workers to find and help perpetual beggars. Yet, it’s always the same guys and occasional gals individually pan handling at street corners and more and more at convenience store entryways, store parking lots and during winter inside professional office buildings.

Why aren’t the cops clearing beggars from dangerous street corners? Surely the police don’t need citizens calling 911 every time we see a beggar. Yet day after day, the same faces are seen begging for money and maybe food. Street beggars nowadays usually carry a water bottle with them.

There’s a whole underground of homeless folks who’ve banned together and deal with their situation as intelligently as possible. One may pay for mobile phone plans they all share. Another pays a monthly health club membership for restroom and shower access. Another knows the best times to pick through restaurant garbage bins. There’s a way to survive on the streets, sort of. It’s clever and probably organized by our growing number of homeless veterans given our two 20-year wars. If anyone knows how to survive on nothing, it would be a person with firsthand war experience.

Who are the homeless? Years ago newspaper reporters got to know a few who were willing to share their hard-luck stories and provide access to their lifestyles. One couple raked in lotsa dough begging on the streets. Beats working for ‘the man,’ they’d say. There were addicts admittedly who, if you can believe it, had not reached rock bottom, still able to move and groove and pan handle on the streets.

Left unsaid about our nation’s homeless problem are the ‘burnt bridges.’ Perhaps quite a number of homeless individuals crashed on couches of family members who after a respectable amount of time kicked the relative freeloader to the streets. This happens all the time in many families. It’s called tough love.  

Speaking of love, why haven’t the mega churches mounted a campaign to go out and help the homeless and stop the crisis? If I were homeless and had absolutely no family to turn to, the places from which I’d first seek help are the largest, most impressive-looking churches. That’s where the money is. And when a beggar asks me for money, I advise him or her to ask a big church. Seek help there. But I can tell when the smile turns upside down, my sage suggestion goes in one ear and out the other. I ain’t gonna give them any money.

I used to, for years, until the city banned citizens from giving to pan handlers standing along the streets. When I was much younger and idealistic, I volunteered at a city homeless shelter, one that took in families with kids instead of individual adults. The kids were taken by bus to school every day. Most parents had jobs, even junk cars parked in an adjacent lot. But … the families could not afford rent, groceries and utilities on a low-income job or even two or three jobs. They were on waiting lists for low-income housing. They were allowed one month to stay at the homeless shelter, then they’d have to pack all their stuff in trash bags and go out to find another shelter with their kids in tow. The families would make the rounds and return within a year. Their plight never ended. Meanwhile, the kids are growing up.

The mean streets of America

People who don’t have a home due to whatever reason still have one thing: freedom. It’s why addicts stay away from family who love them. It’s also why people from dysfunctional families would rather live on the streets than return to live with parents and siblings they know well. Family abuse was a big reason women told me why they refused to move in with the families who raised them. Hurt, anger and hatred are so deep, emotional wounds so fresh, living on the streets and staying high is preferable.

The issue of mental illness prohibits most people from reaching out and personally helping the homeless. There’s a story about a homeless woman in NYC. A businessman walked past her every day for ten years. She yelled obscenities and smelled bad. One day she was gone, the man noticed. A year later, she spotted the businessman, the one who always saw her and ignored her. She had been taken to a hospital where she stayed until the right medication made it possible for her to live a normal life. She went up to the man and bawled him out, telling him if she had been bleeding from a physical wound, he would have called an ambulance and tried to help her. But because she was filthy and yelling, obviously mentally ill, he left her alone.

Americans could ban together and end homelessness, at least reduce it. People should never have to resort to living on the streets. And the homeless are first human beings, second dealing with major problems THAT CAN BE FIXED. Austin’s building tiny houses for their homeless folks, and LA’s giving some homeless people $1,000 a month—trying something instead of doing nothing. Habitat for Humanity has been a nonprofit solution where the recipient family must contribute ‘sweat equity’ in the building of their new simple house as the rest is installed by volunteer carpenters and electricians—usually all in one day. But it requires a city’s blessing and private landowners to donate property for the cause.

Until we admit there’s an undeniable crisis in America with homelessness, the rows of one-man tents, hanging quilts and strewn clothing will continue to stretch from sea to shining sea.

More Americans looking to retire abroad, and not live here anymore

International realtors report a highly profitable increase in Americans searching to move abroad. European countries like Italy and Spain as well as Latin American nations as close as Mexico are the top look-sees. Also, Great Britain is a popular locale of interest.

It’s funny, I thought reading these articles, because … well … mmm … (I’ve been thinking the same thing). Seriously. I could hardly stand the Trump regime with one after another upsetting cruel decision and all four years just plumb crazy.

And … closer to home, I’ve heard other people, folks I actually know, say right out loud their desire to retire overseas. They’ve “had it,” they all said. Americans nearing or at retirement age who’ve lived all their lives in this wonderful nation of free speech, press and religion and never a king or dictator yet, perceive the U.S. already changed to its detriment, dysfunction and disrepair. This country is not the country we grew up in, my contemporaries voice separately yet collectively. What’s more, these friends and associates claim no political ideology for leaving the nation of our birth. They are indeed Republicans and Democrats, even Independents, and just plumb tired of what’s already happened to our great nation.

Furthermore, one news article cited the number one reason so many Americans are calling up international realtors in search of leaving the USA: guns.

That’s MY reason, too!!

How ’bout that?

See, I believe in gun control, like most citizens residing in modern progressive 21st century countries. But here, I’m surrounded by Americans who are defiant, stubborn, and unwilling to even discuss the issue. The phrase ‘gun control’ caused so much volatile counter remarks and outright threats in political debates, between Democrats and Republicans, that liberals just stopped using the phrase altogether.

But when The Who’s Roger Daltrey, of all people, kindly suggests our nation has a big problem with guns that other people of the world cannot fathom, given our great and mighty and prosperous world-leading nation, perhaps gun control should be Conversation Number One in political debates. Let the Republicans take up for guns and more guns while Democrats maintain that’s just plumb crazy to let everybody have powerful guns no questions asked and no mandated license and instruction on gun safety and firearm respect. Like how we now live and many die—tens of thousands … every year.

Everybody don’t need a gun

Police chiefs and law enforcement officers sure would like to turn back the clock to the years when our nation at least attempted to maintain some semblance of gun control—instead of none today.

There are reasons why Americans will fight to the death to keep their firearms, including military-style assault rifles used each week in our national nauseatingly tally of mass shootings:

One: movies and TV shows featuring the need for overwhelming firepower—whereby we learned long ago that what the brain sees, it thinks is real. We’re the nation whose citizens have grown numb to mass shootings, even of kindergarteners and babies. We take in the visuals of the latest mass shootings with glazed eyes, like we’re watching an old black-and-white TV rerun of The Rifleman.

Two: shooter video games—whereby we learned after the mass shooting at Columbine High late last century that kids’ brains on violent computer games, where each animated human body that’s shot bleeds red blood, causes an emotional disconnect with the reality of cold-blooded murder.

Three: lax parental control—whereby we learned a few decades ago that kids cannot be left to play violent video games for hours on end without restrictions by the adults guiding their young lives.

Four: elected leaders taken in by the National Rifle Association—whereby we learned long ago that money talks and congressional leaders were bought big time by the NRA which didn’t give a rat’s ass about the growing mass shootings by AK-47 style machine-like guns, once banned in the 1990s but never again—while the dead bodies stack up and the number of citizen survivors of gunshot wounds outnumber many U.S. city populations.

Five: heil whoever—whereby we learned that half the country prefers a (white) strongman leader who clutches the Bible in one hand (even if upside down) and a high-powered military-style rifle in the other, such a machismo image that families in rural America will proudly pose for Christmas card photos brandishing their heavy-duty firearms.

Six: gun manufacturers—whereby we learned somewhat recently our nation’s gun proliferation is directly linked to the mighty dollar.

Seven: suck it up—whereby we realized generations ago that guns are Americans’ sacred history, the only reason we suppressed the Natives since the 16th century and our oppressors in 1776 and ever since all the Others who we perceive as standing in the way of what we claim is our God-given land, manifest destiny and rights to happiness and prosperity else a bullet hit you between the eyes.

So to Mr. Daltrey and all the rest of the citizens of Earth who are more than befuddled by the U.S. gun problem, let me, a native white American, explain. In the U.S., unfortunately guns are our history and by now two centuries later must be part of our DNA. It’s not physically in our DNA but emotionally, socially and culturally. The belief in guns (really, in the U.S., we believe in guns) is in our blood. Funny, it’s like sleeping with a snake.

Stupid and dumb, we brought this upon ourselves.

As for really packing up and heading to England, where ancestry.com showed I have most of my heritage, I remain ambivalent, not yet solidly determined. Another Trump presidency would likely send me researching jobs and life overseas. The countries where today’s Americans, called ex-Pats, are going to spend the rest of their lives were well established hundreds and hundreds of years ago.

The U.S., in contrast, is still a baby nation. And we the people have been acting like that long enough. To leave the land of my birth does not frighten me as much as playing Russian roulette with each day I live and shop and work and worship in the U.S. It’s only a matter of time before every family in this country is touched by gun violence. That’s how the majority of Americans finally soured on the Vietnam War—when every family had members fighting the unwinnable war and returning either in body bags or physically disabled and psychologically wounded. Once every American family experiences a senseless gun death or injury, gun control will be law of the land. And Americans might want to stay here then and only then.