A social media platform where millions can say whatever they want! What could go wrong?

It’s more like: Let everyone in America copy anything off the internet and post it on their Facebook page.  What could go wrong?  How about everything?  Facebook coupled with the still Wild West internet to the consummation of the ‘free to say whatever pops into our minds good or bad’ era.  Because everyone says online whatever they want, as a nation and a people we are more divided, angry, anxious, suspicious, distrusting, extreme, and more gullible to any and all conspiracies floating around in cyberspace.

Facebook’s all-out effort to censor hate speech from the vast recesses of its social media pages is lost on me.  They are not doing a good job, if they are doing anything at all other than having meetings about all the derogatory phrases and verbal intentions out there, weighing equally criticisms against men and women and cultural slights.

Every day I spot more than one racist, sexist, bigoted, angry comment against: Latin Americans seeking asylum and their children, blacks with or without deep American ancestral roots, Muslims, ‘libtards,’ and more recently elected congresswomen of any race or non Christian faith.  Now, granted eight years of nonstop racial slurs were abundantly posted on Facebook throughout President Barack Obama’s terms in office.  But I thought it would decrease exponentially with the election of yet another rich white man to the U.S. presidency.  Nope.  It’s as if Americans who relish free speech as hate speech were just warming up on social media prior to 2016.

Facebook, recently fined billions of dollars for lax efforts to protect users’ privacy—interestingly, tied to the 2016 election—can’t possibly censor its website.  It is a massive politically charged machine, reaching billions of people the world over—practically every human being on the planet living right now.  And Americans have the right to free speech and thought, so there.

Something about allowing people to freely and openly speak hate against everyone on the planet who is not white and Christian and recognizes the white male of the human species as God on earth is … frightening.

Paved with good intentions

Facebook was such a beautiful concept … so very long ago.  It’s as if it’s been part of America for decades, yet it’s still a relatively new phenomenon in the span of modern times.  Through Facebook and the internet, America has changed because Americans have changed.  Facebook’s downfall was allowing users to post anything off the internet—any insulting image, rough language, comedic political or culturally bigoted statement, and outlandish unfounded claim.  In playing loose with American constitutional rights of free speech and press, a Beast has been created not unlike Frankenstein’s monster.  A giant dead body was jolted to life by electricity, and our society now lives in its shadow, proceeding with dismay and caution.

Tech experts recommend breaking up Facebook like the ‘Baby Bells,’ following the 1982 court mandate against the phone company’s monopoly.  Facebook is gargantuan because of its billions of users who rely on it for social contacts and business.  On the other hand, more people tore their lives off Facebook after federal investigations concluded the Russian government meddled in our U.S. elections specifically through the internet, social media and Facebook prominently. We put our lives on Facebook and for some also our opinions.  We sparred politely and crudely for years.  And now we know, thanks to Facebook, we can agree that no one can say or write or post a thing to change another’s worldview.  The issues are so controversial and our opinions so deeply ingrained we can feel them.

Thanks Facebook.  Thanks internet.  Thanks U.S. Constitution.  How we gonna live with all this freedom?

Facebook, the genie, cannot squeeze itself back into the bottle, to the days of unexpressed views perceived by the ruling society as nasty, mean and evil and by just as many as logical, the truth and just plain right under God’s heaven.

Any future change on Facebook is up to us.  If Americans have learned anything from Facebook, it’s the fact that uncensored thoughts and feelings against massive groups of humanity—races, sexes, religions, creeds, colors and sexuality—spread like wildfire.  And they destroy like fire, too, and cannot be easily contained.  Prejudices that once were thought best kept to oneself, which were left pent up only because of social standards and a subtle code of ethics and common decency, have boiled and seethed for decades.  They’ve always been part of America, the nation that guarantees its people at birth and when naturalized total freedom especially to think whatever we want.

Facebook is a mirror, a reflection of each and every one of us on it and reading it, revealing to millions of others what collectively Americans think and how we act, what we really are inside.  Even if the social media giant disbands or ends its business reign, nothing will change … not for the millions who remain the objects of bigotry, ridicule, racism and sexism from the human venom contained in a single hateful thought, spoken and heard, written and read by many like-minded, allowed to infect another and another.  The seeds of hate have always been abundant, blowing in the wind until landing on soil and taking firm root all over God’s green earth.    

All right already, time for the #MeToo movement to practice forgive & forget

What?  Peter Yarrow, the short bald one in Peter, Paul & Mary, is now tossed into show biz refuse courtesy of the #MeToo movement?  Unknown to me and anyone born in the 1960s and the many decades hence, Yarrow served time for indecency with a teen-ager back in 1969.  He was jailed three months, and ever since has repeatedly apologized and publicly owned up to his transgression and related psychotherapy for decades now, and was even pardoned by President Jimmy Carter.  Still, in the 21st century Yarrow hasn’t paid the ultimate price of obliteration from the annals of American pop music history as well as a life of public good works and international philanthropy.  He wasn’t yet judged and executed by the #MeToo movement.  Yarrow, whose lifetime achievement honor from his New York high school was tarnished in light of the old scandal, was canceled from an upcoming festival when once again his long-forgotten crime came to light in the modern age of ‘a-ha!’

Ironically, this year “Seinfeld” is celebrating thirty years of TV relevancy, the show that in the 1990s dared to ponder if Americans have become a little too sensitive about race and, without saying it, a white person’s unintentional remarks that could be taken as culturally biased and innately racist.  The episode involved Seinfeld questioning an Asian-American mail carrier for the nearest Chinese restaurant and Seinfeld’s silent struggle to avoid the words ‘reservations’ and ‘scalper’ and the disparaging phrase ‘Indian giver’ to a gal who was Native American, a young woman he wanted to impress for a date.

Well, Americans have not come a long way since the age of “Seinfeld,” which may explain our cultural retardation as well as the show’s enduring popularity.  In fact, we as a modern society have regressed … perhaps all the way back to 17th century puritanical America and the days of witch hunts.  How the hell did that happen?

Ya-da ya-da ya-da

The problem that always has been with the #MeToo movement—a movement that also ironically co-exists during the presidency of Donald J. Trump—is the ‘she said, he said’ factor.  There are a few condemned men with more than one female witness to their inappropriate sexual behavior, such as disgraced comedian Louis C.K., chopped down at the top of his game if I recall correctly.  And then the other comedian Aziz Ansari who was downed via internet by a woman’s claim of sexual assault on a date with him years ago.  A lot of disgraced male comedians due to #MeToo; what’s up with that?

America has spent a couple hundred years suppressing women and women issues like cries of rape and injustice that now the tide has turned into a floodgate, and it’s because of the internet and social media like Twitter.  #MeToo started out bravely enough, gained traction after a couple years, to the point that millions of women have claimed on the internet of experiencing with men inappropriate behavior, sexual forcefulness, date rape and stranger rape.  The difference this time is they name names, and everybody believes them.  Considering the way things used to be against women, that’s progress in this country.

No one remembers the ’60s

So the story on Yarrow is in 1969, he was at the height of fame with Peter, Paul & Mary, playing folk music gigs throughout the land, even across the sea.  He was a staple at all the anti-war protests, happenings, and peace-ins.  If he had the hair, he would’ve supported hair peace with John and Yoko.  And all those artists, actors, musicians, beatniks and clingers-on who surrounded him indulged in recreational drugs, one of which is now legal in a few states.  Like any famous guy, he had groupies.  They all do.

A couple of teen-age sisters, the younger age 14, pursued him for an autograph. When they knocked on his hotel door, Yarrow answered in the buff.  The gals didn’t run away.  Leave it to the imagination what happened inside the room.  Not that there’s any excuse, but the feminine look back then was ‘young girl’: long hair, no makeup, short dress, thin like Twiggy.  In fact, “Young Girl” was a hit song.  But a minor cannot consent to a grown man’s desires.  A sex crime occurred, and Yarrow was summarily prosecuted and sentenced.

Men who take advantage of a girl or woman already have committed a crime.  The police and the courts handle each and every one.  But now that #MeToo is running full steam over anyone, no questions asked, it’s become un-American.  It’s old fashioned, gossip, rumor, scandal, salacious, Peyton Place.  We don’t and can’t ever know what the truth is. Worse yet, #MeToo allows for the old adage that the female accuser may bring down a man because he became rich and famous, leaving her the scorned woman.  That can’t possibly be the intention of #MeToo, was it?  Is it?

And for the men who’ve actually paid the price for sexual misconduct, misdemeanor or felony, who were judged guilty in court, have spent their lives not hiding their past but becoming better people—what of them in the age of #MeToo?  Yarrow perhaps is the best of what can come out of public shame.  #MeToo doesn’t give any credence to forgive and forget.  But they’ll come around.  They have to.  Dwelling in the past has its own dire consequences personal and individual but not societal.  We learned long ago it’s best everyone move on.  Like they sang in the ’60s: Take a sad song, and make it better.

When world leaders are the fattest men in the room, no good can come of it

Beware a leader fatter than his people.

The more I see President Donald Trump with Korean dictator Kim Jong-un, the more I think about Mahatma Gandhi.  That’s right, Gandhi: sweet little man, docile, educated, wise, pleasant, swaddled—whose people called him Mahatma, meaning Great Soul—the man from India whose political tactics calling for nonviolent resistance to British authority and rule would impress Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

I’ve been so used to seeing U.S. presidents who at least appear physically fit: Obama, Bush II, Clinton, Bush I, Reagan, Carter, Ford, Nixon and Johnson.  Some had their health battles of sorts, mostly age related, but they all enjoyed active lifestyles … and it showed.  Each was a man to behold, carried a presence and power in the room even among other world leaders.  This is because they had their act together.  Because they were world leaders, they could have eaten whatever they wanted.  Obviously, they exercised self control, including President Bill Clinton eventually.

Now our American president is as bloated, obese and sluggish as millions of us Americans.  And though we are enjoying a prosperity that keeps us eating high on the hog, the North Korean masses are not so lucky.  My understanding is many are starving to death.  And I understand U.S. sanctions against North Korea to halt nuclear pursuits have something to do with it.  Some high authority wants us to believe that line of bull.  But all you have to do is look at their leader.  Short people can’t carry extra weight like the tall, and they cannot hide their obesity.

For more than a generation, America has had an obesity epidemic and all the related health consequences that go with it such as diabetes, heart disease, chronic foot and skeletal pain, and doctors say several types of cancer.  Our leader indeed reflects the absolute fattest period in American history.  What President Trump, Kim and all the tens of millions of obese Americans have in common is: GLUTTONY.  It is an ancient sin, a spiritual affliction, an emotional illness, and if nothing else the epitome of selfishness.  Gandhi, by the way, was known for the spiritual practice of fasting, something out of the Bible when one wants to grow closer to God.

Namaste Gandhi

Gandhi walked among his people, not unlike Christ.  Despite his British education and good fortune, he decided to resemble his people in dress and culture because he truly cared about the masses oppressed by British rule.  Sometimes he spoke of his childhood.  The Brits were called Beefeaters, and Indian children assumed their impressive muscle and strength was linked to the consumption of meat.  So when Gandhi was about 12 years old, he decided to spend one year eating meat, not informing his parents who taught him vegetarianism is a more spiritually sound practice.  Vegetarians believe eating meat clouds the mind and body and makes one aggressive.  Each day he checked his puny muscles, but there was no change.  After the year of beef eating, he was struck by guilt of not being honest with his parents.  He confessed, and they saw fit to not punish him.  He learned a lesson, he said: to be yourself not someone else.

Hmm.    

Another lesson young Gandhi learned was dealing with his extreme fear of the dark.  He just wanted to see something in the dark, a ray of candlelight or moon or stars, some reassurance that all is well.  But sometimes the night sky was moonless and clouded especially during the rainy season.  Gandhi was so afraid of sleeping in total darkness, though that is what he saw when he closed his eyes, what everyone sees when we close our eyes.  Anything could happen.  In his mind there was much to fear: cobras, spiders, beasts.  Then one night a servant asked him, “Why do you fear the dark?  Don’t you know God is with you?”  It was a revelation that changed his life.  God would always be with him, looking out for him, caring for him, loving him eternally.  You see, Gandhi was first a spiritual being, and he knew everyone else to be the same.

OM.

That brings us to another truth in discovering the compulsion of Americans and fat leaders who overeat: FEAR.  What do people who live in the most prosperous nation on earth have to fear?  Instead of a leader who reassures us we have nothing to fear but fear itself, that maintaining constant fright leaves us paralyzed and unable to move forward, we voted in a leader who does nothing but stir fear every minute of every day of every month of every year he’s in charge of the Free World.  President Trump’s leadership has not made us free, just more frightened, fatter, self-loathing, cynical, lonely, and for some unable to believe long-held religious teachings and spiritual enlightenment centering on brotherly love. 

What must President Trump fear?  Or Kim?  One could fear he’ll be found out.  And isn’t it funny?  So could the other.  Phony undeserved leadership based on a mountain of lies, manipulation, smoke and mirrors, deceit, and in one nation brutality, enslavement and murder.  North Koreans are taught from birth to idolize their dear leader like he’s God.  With the internet, however, we can see the day when North Koreans will learn their leader is not God but a man who suppressed them while he lived a life of opulence, comfort and glorious food—the latter any human realizes already.

At least Americans can pursue the truth.  We know better than to idolize our president who will be gone in four to eight years regardless.  Our fear is actually self-induced.  As a nation we are holding onto fear for some deep psychological reason, some unspoken infantile need, stuffing our feelings instead of speaking our mind. It is no way to live in the land of the free and home of the brave.